Not Many Complaints

Well it has been awhile since I posted to this blog. Did not have anything to complain about too much.

My apartment is still coming along nicely and I like the area it is in.

Yes, I am still looking for my woman. I know she is out there. She is very likely looking for me too. We will find each other soon.

I did had a special lady once but it did not work out. A messed up voice message to her phone is all it took to have her not talk to me no more. Wow. I thought she knew me better than that.

I also have been working on myself lately. It is always an ongoing process. I hope you noticed the new profile picture in my blog.

Life in general has been good. I have also been chatting with my family again. We are close again.

Well that is all for now. More updates to come.

Oh yeah! It has been awhile since I last wrote to this blog but that's because my life has been pretty good so far. It's not perfect but it is very much improved.

I am going to continue on working on myself. I am not in no rush to getting into another relationship. In fact, I am going to REALLY enjoy this new found freedom that I have.

Wait a minute....That means I can date any woman I want without worries....SWEET!!!!

I am also going to get me some new clothes. The clothes I have now just look "tired".

Speaking of dating, I still have women asking me if they can move in with me, or have dinner at my new apartment. I would let them come on over for dinner, at least, but I must get myself and my apartment together before that happens. Once everything is right, IT IS ON!!!

That's how life been so far. You would have to agree that it is way better than before.

We will talk later.

Still keep keeping on!

Oh yes! It is good to be King! King of my castle, that is, and what a castle it is turning out to be.

In my few short months at my new place, I have gotten more phone numbers from women than I ever had in my life, until now. Even the women I turned down, because I was still with my ex-girlfriend, want my home and cell phone numbers. I just give it to them because I no longer engaged to my ex.

I had no idea I had this many women checking me out, waiting for an opportunity to give me thier 10 digits!

I do know that I will have to take things slow because I do not want to go thru what I went thru with my ex-girlfriend and her friends. I want to pick the right women this time. Life is too short to make that mistake again!

Who knows, I might still end up having a wife after all.

I have also been able to buy myself some things without worrying about not see those things ever again. There are no thieves in this #$%%^% temple!!

I admit that things are not perfect but at least by next year I will be in better shape than I ever been before.

We will talk later.

No rage for now.

I now live in my own apartment. It has been peaceful for me since moving out that other place. The area is nice, the people are nice, and I live near a shopping mall. To say it's sweet would truly be an understatement.

I have truly learned a lesson from the drama I experienced. That lesson being that If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, then It TRULY must be a duck!

I am presently taking classes at my job in the hospital so that I can better myself( and maybe my better half, who ever she may be).

I going to go ahead and finish unpacking my stuff so that I can truly feel comfortable in my new home.

We will talk later.

A new start on life!

Yes, I have finally moved out that house of horrors that I lived in for six years. All of the ugly things that were going on at that house were really wild but the thing that struck me the most was the fact that my NOW ex-girlfriend was part of it. Just to think, she was talking about getting a GED, finding a job, getting married and all sorts of positive things that she was going to do. She was indeed on her way on completing her goals until this "ASA Belle" came into her life. He changed her whole way of thinking. He even stole from her!

If you have been reading the posts to this blog before this one, you will have a pretty good idea of what I am talking.

I realized that I could no longer stay there with the way things were there.

I now live in my own apartment.

I no longer have to put up with the 2, 3, or even 4 am knocks on the door. I really think it is disrespectful, when people are sleeping and someone decides to knock on your door that early in the morning just to stop by.

I no longer have to put up with disrespectful friends of hers that she allows to come to the house ANYTIME they want.

I no longer have to be accused of untrue things only to have my THEN so-called girlfriend agreeing that I might have did those things.

And best of all, I no longer have to pay her rent for something that I was not getting-- RESPECT!!!!

I sure would not have let my friends disrespect her like her friends did me.

Did I mention the fact that some of her friends, on a seemly regular basis, were stealing anything they can carry from the house? The thing that disgusted me the most was the fact that her daughter's video game system(Nintendo Game Cube) was taken from her room. The very same "suspects" to the crime are still allowed into the house! If ANYBODY did that to ANY of my children(if I had any), not only they will not be in my house anymore but they might also have 20 cans of WHIPASS opened upon them! It really makes you wonder what her daughter is thinking these days.

I hope her FRIENDS can help her now. For her sake, I hope they are but I TRULY doubt it. I wonder if things have gotten worst since her friends know I have moved out?

I have already prayed to god for the conditions in her house to get better. I now leave it in his hands to make things right there.

From this point on, I begin a new life!

We talk later.

It's time to move out!!!!

Well, the same #$%@ is still happening at this house! I have now found out that my so called "girlfriend" is more involved in what is going on here, much to my dismay.

I told her that if things did not improve around the house, I was going to move out. Several weeks passed and still the same crap was going on. It as if my rights to have a "sanctuary" to come home to were being spit upon! The lack of respect for my space( and me) is unbelieveable!

Traffic at the house is at an all time high now. I swear I now live at New York's Grand Central Station! I think I know why there is so much traffic.....DRUGS! What else can explain the 3 am, 2 am, and 4 am visits by her "friends"?

Can I get some #$%####%### sleep around here?!?!?!

When the @#$%%$$ are they going to leave that bathroom alone?!?!?!?

I even got into some arguments with her "friends" because of thier early morning visits. Some of them even threatened me with physical harm!

Since what I asked for is surely not being heard, I will have to get my peace at a place of my own. I have already signed up for a new apartment. I just waiting for the call to move in! I am sooooooooooo ready to move out of here!

I told my ex-girlfriend that I am moving out. She started telling me that her daughter was attached to me and that moving out would greatly upset her. I told my ex that my health ,mental and otherwise, was more important than hurting her daughter's feelings. She should have thought of that before she allowed these people to basically take over her house.

I have nothing against her daughter at all. In fact, her daughter seems to treat me like a father figure. I just can not stay at a house were I have to worry about police taking me to jail because of what is going on there. The truth is that I am very worried about her daughter because of it.

I figured that by moving out that things will improve in the house. She will surely have to make some changes when I am gone. It's the only option left to make things right.

Her "now cousin" Carl even tried to get me to stay but that will not happen! He and his friends is leading my ex-girlfriend down this dark path she now walks. I tried, in vain, to get her to see the truth about them but they are always there, when I am at work, to convince her that they there to help.

I even pray to God for my ex and her daughter to be alright and to come from the darkness that is presently over her house.

As for me, I will have to find another girlfriend but I am in no rush to get one. I think I should use this time to better myself so that when my new girlfriend shows up, I will be ready for her.

I am looking forward to a new life now.

Live and Learn, that's the motto!

We will talk again!

Former house guests still come around!

If I had a dollar for everytime they come to our house, I would have more money than I can stand! I am getting very suspicious about what is going on at our house.

Now I know that we do not live in a classy neighborhood, but I know she can find some decent people here, not the ones that enter our house and steal anything that is not nailed down.

I wonder if they have lo-jack for dvd players?

They visit my "girlfriend" every chance they get, especially when I am not home. They even tried to spend nights at the house. After those few times that they did spend nights here, I made it known that they can not spend nights in my space. Ever since then, the stealing stopped! It's been peaceful here.


The only times that something was taken is when they come over. What is going to convince my girlfriend that they are just thieves waiting for the chance to take something of value? I am afraid of buying anything like a dvd player because of thier visits. Who wants to stay at a place where you can not buy yourself something nice because you are afraid of it being taken?

Lucy(nickname of my "girlfriend) REALLY has some explaining to do!


I guess my underwear is not safe here either!

We will talk later.

House Guest is kicked out...or is he?

She has FINALLY did it! As of yesterday, our trouble-follows-them-where-ever-they-go guest is gone! But the the strange thing is that he tried to stick around a little longer. It's about time to have peace in our house again, I hope.

I did say in my last post about filling in the details.

Well, here it goes.

It started on Christmas, the arguing part, but what really started the fire was the fact that he decided, without my girlfriend's knowledge, having a "house guest" of his own. My girlfriend went out of town for a few days to get her head together and to relieve herself of the stress that was occuring at our house. While she was gone, he invited his "friend" to our house. His friend also stayed nights at the house. The whole time while he was there, I was led to believe, by our house guest,that she knew about it and it was ok. I did find it strange that she did not tell me about the arrangement before she left town but she was already gone when I came home from work that first day she left. She was gone 5 days. His friend was there those five days and nights. When she came back, I asked her about the arrangement. Guess what, she did not know about it at all. It was a BIG @##$$ lie!

After realizing the horror of this lie, I became REALLY PISSED OFF about being lied too. He was confronted about this but, as usual, he accused me of "not liking him" and that I was just trying to get rid of him.

If I had put forth just 1/4 an ounce of effort to get him out our house, he would have been gone long ago but my girlfriend wanted to help him so I did not "go there".

Folks, it did not stop there!

While she was gone, a few items in my girlfriends' room became "lost". It seems like that her things grew some legs and decided to walk out the door. Again he was confronted about this. Again, the usual accusations against me.

This was getting old really fast!

As if this was not enough, He also started asking my girlfriend for money. I thought he had his own money. This part I found out about later when she was deciding to put him out. When she decided to stop giving him money, that's when things REALLY kicked off. We then found out that he had a drug addiction problem.

Since he could no longer get money from my girlfriend to support his drug habit(which we just found out about), he started accusing everyone in the household of "turning on him". After three days of arguing over bull#$%, he went down to my girlfriend's mom's house and told her mom some interesting things. He did not tell my girlfriend that he did this. He kept telling my girlfriend to "expect a phone call" When her mom called, she found out about his visit there.

The first thing he told her mom was that my girlfriend's child was going crazy because "she was talking to herself". What this idiot did not realize is that her daughter was talking to her imaginary friend. Did we all have an imaginary friend when we where kids.

The next thing that he told her mom is that my girlfriend was getting mad for no reason at him and that he thinks that she needs to seek help.

HE NEEDS HELP, BADLY!!!!!

He also told my girlfriend's mom that the living conditions was not good, etc, etc, etc.

After her mom heard all these things, she calls my girlfriend and tells her that they should have a "family meeting" about what was told to her. That's when my girlfriend decided to "tell all" to her mom about the situaltion at the house.

My girlfriend did not want her mom in the middle of this at all but he brought her mom into it anyway. Her mom and her argued a whole hour over this. After the phone call, that's when my girlfriend wanted him to get hurt becuase she felt that her mom was going thru enough stuff of her own to have to hear about her troubles.

She told him that he had to go. The agreement was Jan 2, 2006 but 7 days before that date arrived, he came over to get some of his things. He then states that some of his things were gone. He then goes outside stating that he is calling the police. He comes back. 10 minutes later, the police arrives. He tells the police his story. My girlfriend tells them hers. I mentioned to the police that he has keys to the house. When it was all said and done, my girlfriend owed HIM some money for his "missing" things. The agreement was that if she paid for his "missing suits" that he would not go to the rental office to tell them about her renting out space in her apartment to him. Do you believe that?!?!?

To me, it was extortion, plain and simple!!!

Now Jan 2, 2005 arrives and he decided to once more to accuse me of trying to get him. This time, I was being accused of setting him up to get beat up. He then keeps trying to state to my girlfriend that,by law, he still lives here. My girlfriend is not hearing that. She has seen his true colors. He is just about getting what he can by any means.

Well, He "apoligized" to everyone that was at the house. He also told her not to worry about the $250 that she owed for the "missing suits" Later on while I was downstairs, he then secretly asked my girlfriend for $100. My girlfriend told him that she had no money and that she was having problems getting money and that she would have to fix it.

After staying around our house for 8 hours (because he did not believe her and was expecting my girlfriend to have some money, which she did not get), he finally got his belongings and left.

I have a feeling that this is not over yet. This person is bent on taking people down with him.

Let's see how long our peace at the house will last.

House Guest be gone!! Enough is Enough!

He just bite off more than he can chew. He made the most @#$$$ mistake he can ever make in his life....argue with my girlfriend! What was he thinking? Was he thinking that because he "thought" that my girlfriend and him were close that he could say and do anything he wanted without worry. Did he think by stealing her money and then arguing with her about her house that he would somehow win? Was he thinking that he was more "special" than anyone in the household, including me?

Well, whatever he was thinking has gotten him into a world of trouble.

It all started on Christmas day(Yes, that's right folks, no bull!). It all ended with him going over my girlfriend's mother's house. He told her mother all sorts of lies and now her mother wants to talk to her.

My girlfriend wants to hurt him now.

All the details of this drama will be told in my next post. Stay tuned.

Appreciate what you have..or else!

Recently, I participated in the "Secret Santa" gift giving that we had at my job. At first I was reluctant because people seem to be funny about the gifts one gives but I decided to go ahead and make someone else happy for a change.

We all picked one name each. We were then supposed to SPEND no less than $20 on that gift for the person we each picked. That name would also have the item that they wanted as a gift. I picked a name. Beside that name it had the words "anything". I then went out to get a gift that I thought they would like. That gift was one of those armband radios with the alarm clock feature. It also had "Bass boost" with it. I presented that gift and much to my dismay, they did not like it.

Never mind that I stood in a long line inside the store that I bought that gift from(The line was 10 people deep and they had HUGE shopping carts full of items!).

Forget about the fact that before I could get the item, that I had to get a cashier to get the item from the locked glass display that it was sitting in.

And let's not forget that I had to HIDE said item from the thief that currently is at our house( I wish I could catch thier @#$$%!!).

What ever happend to getting a gift and being happy with it because it was the season for gift giving? Why do some people do no appreciate the fact that you had taken the time out of your day to get them a gift, minutes you will not get back?

Well, I decided to take back the radio and make it my own. HE willl have to wait till after the holidays to get his gift card. I figured getting one will at least let them get their own gift.

I guess they will be shopping while I will be listening to my new radio!

Merry Christmas Everyone and may everybody have a great New Year.

I mean that!

Gamecube takes out sneaky house guest.

They knew that they were being watched. They knew that people were keeping an eye on their stuff. They even knew that the locks were changed but that did not stop them from doing the latest dirty deed, stealing a 12 year old's gamecube from her room!

Now you have to admit that it's the lowest thing one can do to another person, especially a child. A child that has done nothing to deserve this kind of treatment. A child that befriended this person as though they were part of her family. A child that, as of this moment, is not too happy that her gamecube has suddenly left her room without her permission!

It's all started when our present house guest decided to bring over a friend of his. They went upstairs to go to the bathroom. Everything seemed find but when they was on their way to leave the house, my girlfriend noticed that this "friend" of the house guest had a bag, a bag that he did not have when he came over. When they left, she gave me a strange look as though something was not right. She went upstairs then came back down, calmed herself down, and then said that her child's gamecube was gone.

Shocked to hear this news, I went upstairs with her to see what she was talking about. To my utter dismay, I saw that the gamecube was indeed missing! They took everything that came with the gamecube. It was just the day before that when I peeked into her child's room to find the broom, it was sitting right next to the tv where it belonged.

The evidence was clear. Either the house guest did it or his friend. When the house guest came back home, he was confronted with these facts. He denied that he took the gamecube. She asked him about the bag. He said that it was trash. She asked him what color was this bag. He said it was blue and that he threw it into the dumpster outside and then he proceeded to accuse me of "not liking him" and that I was always telling on him. He kept going on about how I was always watching him and that he feels like he's always in the spotlight. He then went upstairs to the bathroom. She secretly told me to check the dumpter outside. I quickly went outside to the dumpster to find this blue bag. It was not there.

When he came back from the bathroom, she asked him to walk with her to the dumpster to check for this bag. That's when he proceeded with statements against me like "he is always accussing me of things", "He do not like me", and other negative statements. What he seems to not understand is that my girlfriend caught them all on her own. She noticed something and took action, without me having anything to do with it other than checking the dumpster. She also already know that he is just trying to shift the focus off of himself by making accusations against me.

They went outside to find this "bag" in the rain. They came back. She told our house guest that he will have to leave by Jan 1, 2006 unless the gamecube appears before then. He then says that his friend probably did it. She then says that she needs to speak to his friend. She also said to him that if it is true that his friend stole her daughter's gamecube, either he or his friend will have to replace it. All of this happend 2 days ago.

Today when I came home from work, our house guest told my girlfriend that I was talking in my sleep saying things such as "She is too calm about the gamecube being stolen" and "She probably stole it herself". He must have pulled up a chair and listened to my snorring, that's what he heard! Now the fact that he is not in the house today to confirm these statements suggests to me that he is once again trying to shift focus off of himself.

The fact is that his #$$%% is grass! He knows that my girlfriend is not going to let this go. January 1, 2006 will be his last day at our house unless the gamecube appears. He is totally responsible for his friend's actions for the simple fact that he asked my girlfriend can he come in.

I already see him accusing me of more #$%#!!

I already see that this is going to get ugly....Oh, Well!

I am going to leave this in God's hands. Let's see if he can accuse God of "not liking him".

May everyone have a joyful holiday and a happy new year.

We will talk later.

The ex appears and he's not happy!

I have just mentioned yesterday that the ex has not been to the house lately. Imagine my surprise when I arrived home that same day to find out that he had just left 10 minutes before I got there. I immediatly checked to see if anything was missing. Nothing so far.

Our present house guest let him in because his ex did not believe that his things were thrown away. According to my girlfriend, when he realized the hard truth, he became very upset, called me every name in the book you could imagine, and wanted vengance. She told him that she told me to throw out his things because the management company that owns the apartment complex wanted those things gone or she would be thrown out of her apartment. He told her it was not right to throw away his things but she reminded him that she did tell him to move his things before it happend. He then tells her that he wants to move more of his things into our apartment.

I guess having a mother and her daughter out in the street because "they should hold on to his things" is what a "friend" means to him. He is REALLY all about himself. Some "friend" he was!

What part of the code "You are no longer welcomed here" he's not cracking?!?!?!

He is just not getting it or he wants to believe that things will be "business as usual"

Well, we do not want no more of his #$%## business ever again!!! His "business" is the shadiest that we have ever seen.

I guess I will have to keep my "headlights" on for a while.

I also found out that the ex has a warrant out because he did not show up for his probation officer.

Interesting!!!!

We will see boys and girls, we will see.

Locks changed, thieving continues!

As you have read up to this point by now, We have had a major problem with keeping our valuables in our house. It was as if we had let a vampire into our house and allowed him( or her) easy access to our jugular veins in our necks!

We thought the problem would surely go away by throwing out this "vampire's" belongings so that they would no longer have a reason to come to our house. We also changed the locks again because of the fact that they had a key to the house. We thought we solved the problem but instead, the stealing STILL continues. The thief ( as least one) is still among us! I now know it's an inside job, indeed!

This person is not just taking people's things because they are valuable, they are taking the things that people will miss. In other words, a REAL #$%%# trouble maker is in our house.

I wonder if it's our present house guest? When things started becoming "lost", he would always blame his ex for what was going on, but lately I have not seen this ex around here but it's been rumored that he has been in the neighborhood. Considering the evidence that is before me, our house guest is suspect number one.

My girlfriend is also aware of this observation. It is really begining to upset her because she honestly believed that people would not stoop so low as to steal from a child, cause trouble, and lie to you the whole time. I told her that they are out there, the wicked minded people. I have told her that they would smile in your face while they are putting a knife in your back. I also have told her that they could care less about your feelings or anybody elses. I have told her that they are all about themselves, nobody else matters. I have told her that the person that is doing this "stealing" in our house is one of those people.

It seems to be something about my girlfriend that attracts these people. I guess they see her kindness for a weakness. Why they would want to hurt the person that actually cares about their well being is totally beyond me!

She is fed up with this present situation. She wants the stealing to stop. I agree.

I honestly think that our present house guest should get the boot! Sure he would be very upset about being put out the house but if the situation was reversed, he would be kicking us out his house!

We are about to make that move boy and girls. Wish us luck!

By the way, do you think he will get his ex to beat me up??......Oh, Well!

I would also like to wish everyone out there Happy Holidays and a Joyful season. Enjoy your Christmas dinner!

Out goes the garbage! Victims no more!

That's the feeling that I am feeling right now as my girlfriend has finally had enough of the "person with the keys". For a little while now, this person has been running in and out our house while everybody was gone and has constantly stolen things from the house. We were not able to catch him in the act but we have plenty of witnesses in the neighborhood that have seen him around. While all this was going on, we held on to his personal belongings so that he can stop by and get his things out the house. Kind of ironic, is it not?

We realized that we were too nice to this person, so two days ago on a snowy day, we threw away all of his things.

I been wanting to get rid of his things for a long time ever since he started causing trouble in our house but my girlfriend, being the good natured person she is, wanted to end things peacefully by allowing him to get his things out the house on his own. That was the plan.

Unfortunately for everyone involved, that "plan" went down in a ball of flames! Yeah, he was stopping by alright (by using stolen keys) but not to take his things away. Oh nooooooo! He was just taking our things away. A Laptop computer, music cds, a child's game system, and cell phones were some of the items stolen from the house. He was even stealing pop tarts! Yes, Pop tarts!! How hard up can you be to be stealing pop tarts pastries?!?!?

Enough was enough! To make a long story short, she told me to throw out his things. With that blessing, his belongings went straight into the neighborhood dumpter!

I think his belongings have made their way to out city landfill by now.

May his belongings rest in peace!

We will talk later.

There are thieves among us! It's True!

This time, they stole my vcr and dvd player. Man, that really sucks!

They must be a sad, miserable person to keep stealing like that. We think it's the same person that has the keys to the house. Truly sad indeed!

I decided to leave it in God's hands because he has never let me down, especially when dealing with my apparent enemies.

There was a cross that had the words "God Bless this Home" written on it. They moved that cross to steal the vcr and tv!

All I have to say about that is that they have brought whatever happens to them on themselves!

Maybe after all this @#$$%% stop happening is when life will be normal again...I hope.

We will talk later.