Strife in my Peacful home...Why?

That's the question I have been asking myself about this person that presently stays at our house. Every since he's been there, I noticed that He always finds something wrong with me or the house. Ok, grant that things are not perfect as he thinks it should be but he's just a guest. My girlfriend is doing this gay friend a favor by letting him stay there even though it's against her lease because he ASKED to stay there for awhile until he gets on his feet.

I never have a problem helping someone who is doing worse than me but everytime I come home from work, I keep hearing about things such as,"people should wash out there own plates when they use them", "men are dogs", "men always take women for granted","you are not a slave to him(refering to me)", "what goes on in this house is not your business(not my business!!---What the @#$$!)", and other such negative stuff.

He says all this stuff to my girlfriend while I am at work. So much so that when I do come home, we sometimes get into arguments over what she repeats to me what was said by him because he makes her think that I am taking her for granted.

Does he even know me to say such things?!?! Who is HE to judge me. That job belongs to God!

It almost makes me want to do something wicked to this person!

I have no problem washing my plates or pans or dishes or anything!

I love my woman! Never have or ever will take her for granted! I appreciate everything she does for me without no doubt! To even think of her as my slave would be insulting not only to her but to me as well! I guess he wants me to give her 40 acres and a mule!

I bet right now while I here typing this out, he's putting more junk into her head.

It truly makes me sick!

So after reading this, what do you think I should do about it.

Is there a peaceful way to fix this situation without hurting my girlfriend's feelings?

I am VERY interested in what you have to say. After all, that what's this blog is all about.

I'll be reading your comments.