House Guest is kicked out...or is he?

She has FINALLY did it! As of yesterday, our trouble-follows-them-where-ever-they-go guest is gone! But the the strange thing is that he tried to stick around a little longer. It's about time to have peace in our house again, I hope.

I did say in my last post about filling in the details.

Well, here it goes.

It started on Christmas, the arguing part, but what really started the fire was the fact that he decided, without my girlfriend's knowledge, having a "house guest" of his own. My girlfriend went out of town for a few days to get her head together and to relieve herself of the stress that was occuring at our house. While she was gone, he invited his "friend" to our house. His friend also stayed nights at the house. The whole time while he was there, I was led to believe, by our house guest,that she knew about it and it was ok. I did find it strange that she did not tell me about the arrangement before she left town but she was already gone when I came home from work that first day she left. She was gone 5 days. His friend was there those five days and nights. When she came back, I asked her about the arrangement. Guess what, she did not know about it at all. It was a BIG @##$$ lie!

After realizing the horror of this lie, I became REALLY PISSED OFF about being lied too. He was confronted about this but, as usual, he accused me of "not liking him" and that I was just trying to get rid of him.

If I had put forth just 1/4 an ounce of effort to get him out our house, he would have been gone long ago but my girlfriend wanted to help him so I did not "go there".

Folks, it did not stop there!

While she was gone, a few items in my girlfriends' room became "lost". It seems like that her things grew some legs and decided to walk out the door. Again he was confronted about this. Again, the usual accusations against me.

This was getting old really fast!

As if this was not enough, He also started asking my girlfriend for money. I thought he had his own money. This part I found out about later when she was deciding to put him out. When she decided to stop giving him money, that's when things REALLY kicked off. We then found out that he had a drug addiction problem.

Since he could no longer get money from my girlfriend to support his drug habit(which we just found out about), he started accusing everyone in the household of "turning on him". After three days of arguing over bull#$%, he went down to my girlfriend's mom's house and told her mom some interesting things. He did not tell my girlfriend that he did this. He kept telling my girlfriend to "expect a phone call" When her mom called, she found out about his visit there.

The first thing he told her mom was that my girlfriend's child was going crazy because "she was talking to herself". What this idiot did not realize is that her daughter was talking to her imaginary friend. Did we all have an imaginary friend when we where kids.

The next thing that he told her mom is that my girlfriend was getting mad for no reason at him and that he thinks that she needs to seek help.

HE NEEDS HELP, BADLY!!!!!

He also told my girlfriend's mom that the living conditions was not good, etc, etc, etc.

After her mom heard all these things, she calls my girlfriend and tells her that they should have a "family meeting" about what was told to her. That's when my girlfriend decided to "tell all" to her mom about the situaltion at the house.

My girlfriend did not want her mom in the middle of this at all but he brought her mom into it anyway. Her mom and her argued a whole hour over this. After the phone call, that's when my girlfriend wanted him to get hurt becuase she felt that her mom was going thru enough stuff of her own to have to hear about her troubles.

She told him that he had to go. The agreement was Jan 2, 2006 but 7 days before that date arrived, he came over to get some of his things. He then states that some of his things were gone. He then goes outside stating that he is calling the police. He comes back. 10 minutes later, the police arrives. He tells the police his story. My girlfriend tells them hers. I mentioned to the police that he has keys to the house. When it was all said and done, my girlfriend owed HIM some money for his "missing" things. The agreement was that if she paid for his "missing suits" that he would not go to the rental office to tell them about her renting out space in her apartment to him. Do you believe that?!?!?

To me, it was extortion, plain and simple!!!

Now Jan 2, 2005 arrives and he decided to once more to accuse me of trying to get him. This time, I was being accused of setting him up to get beat up. He then keeps trying to state to my girlfriend that,by law, he still lives here. My girlfriend is not hearing that. She has seen his true colors. He is just about getting what he can by any means.

Well, He "apoligized" to everyone that was at the house. He also told her not to worry about the $250 that she owed for the "missing suits" Later on while I was downstairs, he then secretly asked my girlfriend for $100. My girlfriend told him that she had no money and that she was having problems getting money and that she would have to fix it.

After staying around our house for 8 hours (because he did not believe her and was expecting my girlfriend to have some money, which she did not get), he finally got his belongings and left.

I have a feeling that this is not over yet. This person is bent on taking people down with him.

Let's see how long our peace at the house will last.